Dear Anonymous Reader,
I have a question for you. Did ever once in your life someone told you that you’re ugly? Yes? No? Never? Once? Twice? Thrice? When was that? Did it made you cry? Sob? Hate the world or hate yourself?
If yes, I’m sorry love. This world can be very mean, because people are small minded. Every time I hear that some people are talking about me being ugly- I end up crying. To think that I am already in my 30ish, I still get affected of these things. I should not be, right? But maybe I’m just human. These people that talks about me are strangers that don’t really know me.
I am very comfortable of my own skin. I’m not good looking, but I’m pretty confident about myself. Weird that I still get hurt when I hear those kind of talk about my physical appearance. So it makes me think how painful it would be to those people that are being bullied, because of how they look and to top it all they have huge INSECURITIES.
To those people that once said I am ugly – I’m sorry but you guys are wrong. My husband said I’m pretty. LOL
So what’s my point? It’s okay to get sensitive sometimes. It’s okay to doubt yourself. It’s okay to hate yourself. BUT, that’s it. As long as you feel beautiful, happy, healthy, comfortable and safe – then you should not give a fuck.
Remember, those people that belittle you are just jealous and wishing that they are living your life.
Yes good physical appearance matters but hey as long as you are taking good care of yourself, educate yourself, have good manners, have humor, you have a good heart, and you are conscientious – you are PERFECT.
Physical appearance struck people but personality lingers.
To my anonymous reader remember you are BEAUTIFUL!