You are UGLY

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Dear Anonymous Reader,

I have a question for you. Did ever once in your life someone told you that you’re ugly? Yes? No? Never? Once? Twice? Thrice? When was that? Did it made you cry? Sob? Hate the world or hate yourself?

If yes, I’m sorry love. This world can be very mean, because people are small minded. Every time I hear that some people are talking about me being ugly- I end up crying. To think that I am already in my 30ish, I still get affected of these things. I should not be, right? But maybe I’m just human. These people that talks about me are strangers that don’t really know me.

I am very comfortable of my own skin. I’m not good looking, but I’m pretty confident about myself. Weird that I still get hurt when I hear those kind of talk about my physical appearance. So it makes me think how painful it would be to those people that are being bullied, because of how they look and to top it all they have huge INSECURITIES.

To those people that once said I am ugly – I’m sorry but you guys are wrong. My husband said I’m pretty. LOL

So what’s my point? It’s okay to get sensitive sometimes. It’s okay to doubt yourself. It’s okay to hate yourself. BUT, that’s it. As long as you feel beautiful, happy, healthy, comfortable and safe – then you should not give a fuck.

Remember, those people that belittle you are just jealous and wishing that they are living your life.

Yes good physical appearance matters but hey as long as you are taking good care of yourself, educate yourself, have good manners, have humor, you have a good heart, and you are conscientious – you are PERFECT.

Physical appearance struck people but personality lingers.

To my anonymous reader remember you are BEAUTIFUL!

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26 thoughts on “You are UGLY

    1. wifeblah

      i dont use social media that much so i dont know if online people are talking about me, my experience was more on real life people that i barely know but they exist around me. It hurts at first, but I bounce back the next day.

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      1. ilonapulianauskaite

        If they talking about you, online, so you are on top❤️in real life, until they are talking about you, you can focus on your goals and you will go to the starts until they spending their time by talking about you, they will never move from the first step🤗

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  1. orkidedatter

    These words were very heartfelt to me. I heard words like inept, fat, stupid and other things ..I still get affected by this…
    and it has done something about my self-esteem and self-confidence, which I now work very much with myself..
    Thank you for sharing❤️
    I looking forward to follow your blog🦋
    Love from Norway.

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    1. wifeblah

      I really appreciate you reading my post, just like you this post means a lot to me. I hate that you had this experience too in the past. I truly understand how it feels and how it affects us as human beings. However, this is for sure, no matter how many names they call you – you are 101% better than them. You are beautiful, and you are for sure successful in life because people like them motivate us to be the best version of ourselves ALL THE TIME!

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      1. orkidedatter

        A heartfelt and sincere and genuine felt comment. Thank you very much, I don’t know how to thank you enough. Thank you very much for kind words. I am humble and touched.
        You are a beautiful soul with a heart of gold🦋That you understand so well yourself how this feels, means more to me that you can imagine❤️
        I can feel a tear in my eyes because your words are so lovely and much love, thank you.
        You and me: the best version of ourselves🦋
        ❤️

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      2. orkidedatter

        nothing to excuse, but I’m very happy that you write, like your blog🦋thank you for your nice words, you warm my heart🦋
        I hope you make you a great day🦋

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  3. Huguette

    This is some great and inspiring message to your readers! Some people are luckier than others regarding the way they look but the only « ugly » is the person with a dark heart, hateful and hurt others…otherwise beauty is very relative and it fades eventually, what lasts is how you made the people feel.
    Have a great day

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    1. wifeblah

      I can’t agree more with what you said. Yes, you are on point. Sometimes people forget that a good heart will be remembered even when we die, and looks will change especially when we aged we will all end up like raisins – wrinkled and dry. 🙂 Thank you so much.

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